-16 years old
-live in Dallas,TX
-I have a brother and a sister
I was born in Oklahoma but moved to Dallas when i was about five-years old and have lived in Dallas ever since. I believe I am a hard working student at times but sometimes I also tend to lose focus. I believe I am a nice, caring person. I am quiet at first until I get to know people. I play tennis and hope to play at a good college. I play everyday and work very hard.
From my results I am known as an "advocate"- Extroverted, intuition, feeling, and perceiving, also known as being a warm enthusiastic person, typically bright and full of potential. The "advocate" can become very passionate and excited about things. Their enthusiasm lends them to the ability to inspire and motivate others. I agree with this except i have never though of myself as enthusiastic before. It also says these people tend to hold up their end of a relationship, sometimes being victimized. I think that is true and happens to me. It says the "advocate" is energetic leader, likely to take charge, which i dont believe i have ever done, so I disagree with that statement. My strengths are being kind to others and being passionate. My weaknesses I know about myself are being quiet and holding in feelings.
The Big Five-
The conclusion that Costa and McCrae and Norman and Goldberg reached was O.C.E.A.N. The big five says I prefer traditional and familiar experiences, I am neither organized or disorganized, I probably enjoy spending quiet time alone, I tend to consider the feelings of others, and I am generally relaxed. I agree with most of what this test says except I don't prefer traditional and familiar experiences. I like traditional events sometimes but I also enjoy new experiences. I agree sometimes i enjoy spending time alone, but not for too long or I feel lonely. I always try to consider feelings of others so I won't hurt their feelings. To others i always seem relaxed but sometimes I am actually pretty tense.
My Jarhari window shows that most people think of me as a friendly, modest, quiet person who is also silly. No one ever said any words about being extroverted or behavior words describing outgoing which is what it says in the Myers- Briggs test. I am known to be trustworthy and dependable which I agree with. This shows I am a quiet loving person who isn't outgoing.
Please help. I am currently trying to focus on getting a little better in tennis to get more wins on my record to ensure colleges will want me. I"m scared that I might not be good enough and won't get into a college I want to play for. If i didn't get into a college I would want to play for I don't know what I would do but I would consider quitting. I am also scared to go to a college without any of my close friends because I'm afraid other people might not like me or I wont be able to get around on my own. Any advice?