if u want it, grasp it
self confidence is like a person you love, you should never let it go no matter what happens. no body should be able to take it away from you, then you truly don't have self confidence.
i ounce watched this show called facts of life, it was about a bunch of girls that moved into a big house. The cocky and thought she was the best was blair. She thought she could get any guy she wanted, Blair had to much confidence and made her stuck up and and ignorant. Sydney was not so confident, which made her seem shy and not that fun. but her aunty taught her a lesson and she got just the right amount of confident. then she got 2nd in the beauty queen contest at the fair.