The decision making model
Your friends (ingluding someone you have a crush on)starts smoking,witch they things makes them grown up.
1.state the situation- Your friends are smoking
2.list the options- (I could smoke with them) (or I could not smoke with them and stay out of trouble)
3.weigh the possible outcomes - (If I smoke I might get in trouble) ( if I don't smoke then I could life my life and not get in trouble)
4.consider values- (Smoke and get in trouble or don't smoke and not get in trouble)
5.make a decision and act it- If you don't smoke no trouble is coming your way do smoke and you will have to deal with your parent if they find out
6. Evaluate the decision- I'm not going to smoke so I'm not getting in trouble