6meh1.1 decision making model
#2 your friends, (including someone you have a crush on) start smoking, which they think makes them "grown up"
Step 1: my friends are smoking especially my secret crush. They think that makes them grown up.
Step 2: I can refuse. I could just leave. Tell an adult or convince them to do something else
Step 3: well I can tell a parent or guardian or convince them to do something else.
Step 4: well I can tell a parent because it is illegal to smoke and you are under 21 years old.
Step 5: tell a parent They are smoking and let them convince not to
Step 6: tell an adult