To the Ladies  by Lady Mary Chudleigh

Wife and servant are the same,

But only differ in the name:

For when that fatal knot is tied,

Which nothing, nothing can divide:

When she the word obey has said,

Ans man by law supreme has made,

Then all that's kind is laid aside,

And nothing left but state and pride:

Fierce as an Eastern prince he grows,

And all his inner rigour shows:

Then but to look, to laugh, or speak,

Will the nuptial contract break.

Like mutes she signs alone must make,

And never any freedom take:

But still be governed by a nod,

And fear her husband as a God:

Him still must serve, him still obey,

And nothing act, and nothing say,

But what her haughty lord thinks fit,

Who with the power, has all the wit.

Then shun, oh! shun that wretched state,

And all the fawning flatt'rers hate:

Value your selves, and men despise,

You  must be proud, if you'll be wise.

Lady Mary Chudleigh lived from 1656 to 1710.  She educated herself; and challenged the traditional female role in society.  She must have been a very strong woman.  I think women from her time might have thought these same thoughts; but never would have voiced them out loud.

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