Letting Go of You Thought "The One"
I know everyone of us met someone who is so charming and makes you laugh (even at his driest humor). The insanely connection between you and him is so intense that makes you think he is THE ONE. He makes you feel special in every way. Makes you feel beautiful at your pajamas and literally perfect with your imperfections. Then suddenly and unexpectedly the cliche "I love you but I am not in love with you." came out from his juicy red lips. Hashtag friendzoned. The ambiguity can make it difficult to decide whether you need to let go or fight for your love. We are soldiers and we don't easily surrender especially if you know from the very fragmented parts of your cardiovascular system that you love him so much that you are willing to give up even the last bite of your favorite pizza. But not all war are worth fighting for. No matter how much you hate to admit, it is vital to know that you have less than you deserve. Stop convincing yourself that he will be yours as long as you are patient enough to wait. Stop saying to yourself that you both have a perfect love but the situation and timing is wrong.
Yes, letting go will leave you unanswered questions and doubts if you made the right decision and chose the different path. Questions that keep lingering into your neurons like what if i fight for him? What if I tried and pushed more? Sweetie, you cannot fight for someone who doesn't want to fight back. It is like throwing a tennis ball into a wall of invisibility. And believe me. You tried your very best .Being wide awake at 3am (it should be the REM time) and going to work at 9am is not easy. Na-ah! Looking like a zombie at work is not a good sign.Letting go of someone means putting an end to a one- sided fight. Don't be so harsh with yourself. Yes Mr. "The One" and your story is not yet finished. Like a book, some pages are not yet revealed and you won't be able to experience some of the chapters. But be fearless to close the book and let it float at the center of the universe. Don't look back. Don't try to find it again.
The right person will come into your life the moment you least expect it. Have faith and eat that last bite of your pizza and smile because you are amusingly beautiful. :)