''they can also benefit others by honing their visual/spatial skills and improving social networking ability''
Video Games have benefits for most players.
''certain personality traits can predict which children will be negatively influenced by video games''
It is not always the video games fault that a it influenced a child negatively. Their own behavior is is the cause.
''one 13 year old said during a study I conducted at Harvard With video games, you know its fake.''
Most kids know the difference between the game and real life.
'' violent games cause children psychological or neurological harm... - are not supported by evidence''
Most arguments made by people aren't actually based on any proven evidence.