Being helpful to me is something very important. I feel if you help someone in a time of need that that favor will return when you are in a time of need. And if I cant help that family or person or anything. I will surely try my best to help. But here's the hard part about helping people. You cant help everybody. there's going to be a time when you have to say no or cant. "The moment you try to please everybody is the moment you fail."