Scenario #1.

i would log onto instant messenger too and i would see what they were talking about then i would go and try to see who he was talking about and tell him lets start ignoring him so then he would,t be able to do that cause no one would talk to him then they will see that hes a jerk. Then i would provide a suggestion two start pressuring jan so he wouldn't get away with starting a roomer.                        

Respect peoples feelings. Even if it doesn't mean anything to you. it could mean everything to them